My friends at Tribal Mixes

gwende shinelikestars on October 24th, 2006 / post 12695

i wasn't going to say anything but i have decided to , not for the attention or anything like that just to tell you that my life has changed completely
I am devastated to tell you all that i have breast cancer , i found out Friday 13th and i am going into hospital tomorrow to see if the cancer has spread elsewhere and Thursday they are operating , it's tiny 11mm ,i'm so glad i caught it in this early stage . I have no idea what my future brings but i do know one thing this horrible nasty disease isn't beating me .I have to much to live for being only 33 .
i have been speaking to survivors off line and online , i'm scared but i know i can get through this with the love of my family and friends and my strong mind .
keep partying everyone and have a dance for me too :-)

i have no idea when i'll be out clubbing again but i'll keep listening to the music .. always.. :-)

i wish each and everyone of you all the best :-)

~~mel~~

jozeg retired on October 24th, 2006 / post 12697

o that is not good.But hang on Gwende ,everything is gonna be ok.you see.Best cure is not to give up and fight.don't let that disease brake your spirit.we are here for you for support. :kiss:

Willy84 Bongaz on October 24th, 2006 / post 12698

I Really don't know wat to say but all i can is hang on nothing in this world can't be cured if not with medeics so it will be with happines try to forget pain and start live u r life as it think of it as something wil pass u said that u found it early so be happy and belive that u will be cured , i think cacer when found earlier so it can be cured and u said it is so small i hope u will be cured and stay with us in this site maybe i don't know u well but really i can't imagine this site without u :-D

so be cured for us

bocaccio11 Open your eyes on October 24th, 2006 / post 12700

yes its good that you have a positive attitude..Cause thats what will get you through this awful time...Your a very strong person and everything will be okay :thumbsup:

(user gone) on October 24th, 2006 / post 12701

ofcourse I will have a dance in your name Mel!! :yoji:

I wish you the fastest and the best of recoveries...Don't worry I know I speak for everyone here when I say that each and every one of us will be supporting you mentally through this hardchip...plz do let us know how things are coming along

take care and have a big HUG

pizdasular big chief on October 24th, 2006 / post 12703

Damn this is bad news.I wish all the best for you Mel, hope the surgery will be a success and you get better after it. :-)

lucabati Degenerate on October 24th, 2006 / post 12704

I am kind of shocked to find this out. I dont know what to say other than fight and i am sure that u'll pass this dark moment.
We will be with u throughout this entire period.
Biiiiiiiiiiiiig Hugs

Jake, it takes more than sex to make a man happy. You also need money. (Charlie Harper)

vargabesz hello world on October 24th, 2006 / post 12706

i'm sorry to hear that.. i don't know what to say.. get all your strength together and don't give up! you can get through it! best wishes

I know I need a new avatar URL

slash ProDanceCulture on October 24th, 2006 / post 12707

over last 2-3 years my way of life have been accompanied with one simple slogan : what if i die tomorrow, will it matter then what matters now? with this "i don't give a.." attitude i've been keeping myself floating the river of life.. just recently i've decided to change my way of living by incorporating two more things into the main-frame of mythinkingmachine - "whatever happens is for the good" and "do things and never look back". i don't know why i'm saying this here.. keep it strong, Mel!! what doesn't kill us, only makes us stronger.. i know you'll get trough it..

bidona user on October 25th, 2006 / post 12716

gwende wrote:
i have breast cancer , i found out Friday 13th

what a date :-/

anyway i cant tell u more than i told already, so COME BACK SOON WITH US :love:

enen *deepsoulfunk* on October 25th, 2006 / post 12717

ill make a special mix for u...KEEP IT UP MAN...WE ARE WITH U!

jozeg retired on October 25th, 2006 / post 12720

enen wrote:
ill make a special mix for u...KEEP IT UP MAN...WE ARE WITH U!

SHE is a Girl.LOL

dacarma pwr on October 26th, 2006 / post 12723

im really sad and shocked 2 read this message gwende..but good job u caught it at an early stage.i wish u the best of luck and we r all with u..i know ur stronger than it and can overtake it!!!we :love:

u gwende

sep08 user on October 26th, 2006 / post 12724

It's great that you were able to catch it at an eraly stage. I had my mom and 2 aunts go through the same things and luckily they all made it out fine. The one thing that I can tell you from the experience from my mom is to be MENTALLY healthy and to have your friends and damily around you at all times. By hvaing your family and friends around, you stay positive and think about the good things. I hoep that your next post will be a message telling us that you're OK. Till then stay positive and I will go and have an extra dance at a club for you this saturday. Get well soon and best wishes :thumbsup: